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Split Answers: Me and Partner
Your answer for yourself and what you want from a partner are not always the same thing.
Until now, every question on Lykewise had one answer. Yes, no, curious, or limit. That answer meant both "this is what I want" and "this is what I want from ...
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Why We Built Lykewise
What we were looking for, what already existed, and what we decided to make.
There are already apps that help couples explore what they are into. Spicer, Kindu, and a few others have been around for years, and they have helped a lot o...
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Open Sets, Following, and a New Privacy Model
Share your interests publicly, follow people you are curious about, and control exactly who sees what.
Up until now, using Lykewise meant exchanging codes and creating sets for specific people. That works well when you already have someone in mind, but it does...
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Intensity, Groups, and Better Negotiation Tools
Say how much, not just whether. Match with a whole group. Track what you have discussed.
A few things changed this week that make Lykewise more useful for the conversations that happen after you match.
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A Lot More Questions to Work With
New lists for ENM, communication, consent, aftercare, and more -- plus a way to import your existing kink lists.
When Lykewise launched, the question lists focused on the core stuff: rope, impact, D/s, sexual interests, scene interests, and a handful of social and conne...
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Mutual Mode, Roles, and Saved Answers
Three features that make sets work better for different situations.
Not every Lykewise set is a stranger vetting exercise. Sometimes you are using it with a partner, a close friend, or someone you already trust. The original ...
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What Is Lykewise?
A mutual interest matching tool for kink, play, romance, and connection.
Lykewise is a tool for finding out what you have in common with someone -- without either of you having to go first.
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How Lykewise Protects Your Privacy
Six layers of defense between your answers and the other person.
When you answer questions about kink, play, or attraction, those answers are sensitive. Lykewise is designed so that your individual answers are never expose...
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Understanding Your Results
What matches mean, what they do not, and what to do next.
You both approved and now you can see your shared answers. Here is how to read them.
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