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Guides, tips, and how Lykewise works.

What Is Lykewise?
A mutual interest matching tool for kink, play, romance, and connection.
Lykewise is a tool for finding out what you have in common with someone -- without either of you having to go first.
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How Lykewise Protects Your Privacy
Six layers of defense between your answers and the other person.
When you answer questions about kink, play, or attraction, those answers are sensitive. Lykewise is designed so that your individual answers are never expose...
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Using Question Sets with Play Partners
A practical guide to exploring compatibility before a scene.
You have been talking to someone about playing together. Maybe you met at a munch, connected on FetLife, or you are already friends. You have a sense of what...
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Lykewise for Polyamorous Connections
How ENM folks use Lykewise to navigate new and existing dynamics.
Polyamorous and ENM relationships involve a lot of communication. Lykewise does not replace that communication, but it can make some conversations easier to ...
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Tips for Honest Answers
Why authentic responses lead to better results for everyone.
The whole system depends on honest answers. If you say yes to things you are not actually into, the results are meaningless. Here is how to make the most of it.
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Understanding Your Results
What matches mean, what they do not, and what to do next.
You both approved and now you can see your shared answers. Here is how to read them.
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