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Split Answers: Me and Partner

Your answer for yourself and what you want from a partner are not always the same thing.

Until now, every question on Lykewise had one answer. Yes, no, curious, or limit. That answer meant both "this is what I want" and "this is what I want from ...

Open Sets, Following, and a New Privacy Model

Share your interests publicly, follow people you are curious about, and control exactly who sees what.

Up until now, using Lykewise meant exchanging codes and creating sets for specific people. That works well when you already have someone in mind, but it does...

Intensity, Groups, and Better Negotiation Tools

Say how much, not just whether. Match with a whole group. Track what you have discussed.

A few things changed this week that make Lykewise more useful for the conversations that happen after you match.

A Lot More Questions to Work With

New lists for ENM, communication, consent, aftercare, and more -- plus a way to import your existing kink lists.

When Lykewise launched, the question lists focused on the core stuff: rope, impact, D/s, sexual interests, scene interests, and a handful of social and conne...

Mutual Mode, Roles, and Saved Answers

Three features that make sets work better for different situations.

Not every Lykewise set is a stranger vetting exercise. Sometimes you are using it with a partner, a close friend, or someone you already trust. The original ...

What We Have Been Working On

Quick start presets, follow-up sets, notifications, and making things easier to use.

Lykewise is a small project built by one person. It is actively being developed and things change regularly based on how people are actually using it. Here i...